Q&A: Why is she teasing me about sex through texts?

June 21, 2013 | By

Question by Duncan: Why is she teasing me about sex through texts?
K, so tonight we're texting....

Her: I'm so stressed with school
Me: So am I
Her: I wanna have sex, it'll de-stress me
Me: I wanna have sex too, you're right, it's such a stress reliever
Her: It's been too long. At least when we get married that won't be a problem
Me: Let's have sex
Her: Haha really?
Me: Haha what?
Her: I forgot what we were talking about! Oh ya sex, I love sex
Me: Haha yeah... sex <3
Her: Me + you = (Circular hand emoji + a pointing finger emoji, so like penis and vagina)
Me: Are you trying to tell me you wanna have sex with me?
Her: Nope I pressed random letters on my keyboard and it spelt that ;) weird

So we just kid around a little more and then...

Her: I'd totally have sex with you _______
Me: Honest, do you want to have sex?
Her: Booty call 101. I'm not having sex with guys until I like them remember. I need to be cautious about my count haha
Me: Hahah oh right...

What the ****? She brings it up and then shoots me down like that? And I was giving her the option to pretty much agree to it with her own decision.

Best answer:

Answer by J
It's a test. Most women do it with a newish guy, to see if he takes the sex talk literally and tries to coax them into going through with it, or if they recognize it for what it really is and just brush it off, making the girl work for it.

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Comments (8)

  1. ?

    She probably shot you down because she thought you’d think it’s weird, and tbh I think you should stay away from her she only wants to use you for sex

  2. Wanna

    She’s playing around,and you fell for the bait and made yourself look like an idiot >_<

  3. Help Me

    It just sounds like she’s teasing you, maybe you’re her confidence booster? (Just a guess)

    If this is bothering you the best thing you can do is question her, ask her why she keeps bringing up sex with you only to later reject the concept.

  4. Julia

    She is retarted

  5. Joker24

    She does want sex. Tell her u go over to her place when she gets horny again. If she no again, just say 2 bad, my gun was loaded.

  6. Zoe

    She’s a cock tease. She likes the attention but doesn’t want to have sex with you.

  7. imcool

    I think she’s just playin’ around with you. She just wants to play games

  8. Becky

    She’s being a tease, because she knows that she can be. The next time she starts talking about sex and you feel as though she’s just being a cock tease. Just tell her she’s being a cock tease and that you find it annoying. She needs to either say yes i want to have sex or no to having sex with you and stick to her guns.