Question by Duncan: Why is she teasing me about sex through texts?
K, so tonight we're texting....
Her: I'm so stressed with school
Me: So am I
Her: I wanna have sex, it'll de-stress me
Me: I wanna have sex too, you're right, it's such a stress reliever
Her: It's been too long. At least when we get married that won't be a problem
Me: Let's have sex
Her: Haha really?
Me: Haha what?
Her: I forgot what we were talking about! Oh ya sex, I love sex
Me: Haha yeah... sex <3
Her: Me + you = (Circular hand emoji + a pointing finger emoji, so like penis and vagina)
Me: Are you trying to tell me you wanna have sex with me?
Her: Nope I pressed random letters on my keyboard and it spelt that 😉 weird
So we just kid around a little more and then...
Her: I'd totally have sex with you _______
Me: Honest, do you want to have sex?
Her: Booty call 101. I'm not having sex with guys until I like them remember. I need to be cautious about my count haha
Me: Hahah oh right...
What the ****? She brings it up and then shoots me down like that? And I was giving her the option to pretty much agree to it with her own decision.
Answer by J
It's a test. Most women do it with a newish guy, to see if he takes the sex talk literally and tries to coax them into going through with it, or if they recognize it for what it really is and just brush it off, making the girl work for it.
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