what do I write in my “Betrothal Contract” to my soon-to-be-wife’s Father?

February 5, 2013 | By

Question by Punisher: what do I write in my "Betrothal Contract" to my soon-to-be-wife's Father?
I betroth (court) and wanting to fill out the marriage contract between my "future" wife and I such as things I promise to do and thinks I ask her to do. Please help me out with a Torah basis! Please give verses from the Tanakh if need be! Todah!

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Answer by Richard B
I think you'd do well to consult a local rabbi about this.

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Emperor Charles V, son of Juana of Castile, Nephew of Catherine of Aragon
betrothal contract
Image by lisby1
A miniature by Lucas Horenboult, painted about the time of his betrothal to his first cousin, Princess Mary Tudor. The marriage contract was later broken.

Charles V (24 February 1500 — 21 September 1558) was ruler of the Holy Roman Empire from 1519 and, as Charles I of Spain, of the Spanish realms from 1516 until his abdication in 1556. On the eve of his death in 1558, his realm, which has been described as one in which the sun never sets, spanned almost 4 million square kilometers.

As the heir of four of Europe's leading dynasties – the Habsburgs of Austria, the Valois of Burgundy, the Trastamara of Castile, and the House of Aragon – he ruled over extensive domains in Central, Western, and Southern Europe, as well as the various Castilian (Spanish) colonies in the Americas.

He was the son of Philip I of Castile (Philip the Handsome) and Juana of Castile (Joan the Mad of Castile). His maternal grandparents were Ferdinand II of Aragon and Isabella I of Castile, whose daughter Catherine of Aragon was Queen of England and first wife of Henry VIII. His cousin was Mary I of England, who married his son Philip. His paternal grandparents were the Holy Roman Emperor Maximilian I and Mary of Burgundy, whose daughter Margaret raised him.

As the first king to reign in his own right over both Castile and Aragon following the end of the Reconquista, he is often considered as the first King of Spain. Charles I of Spain provided five ships to Ferdinand Magellan and his navigator Juan Sebastian Elcano, after the Portuguese captain was repeatedly turned down by Manuel I of Portugal. The commercial success of the voyage (first circumnavigation of the Earth), temporarily enriched Charles by the sale of its cargo of cloves and laid the foundation for the Pacific oceanic empire of Spain.

Charles' reign constitutes the pinnacle of Habsburg power, when all the family's far flung holdings were united in one hand. After his reign, the realms were split between his descendants, who received the Spanish possession and the Netherlands, and those of his younger brother, who received Austria, Bohemia and Hungary.

Aside from this, Charles is best known for his role in opposing the Protestant Reformation[1] and the convocation of the Council of Trent.

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Comments (1)

  1. Adante

    This is an incredibly important document to a Jewish marriage. Not only does it have to be worded right, it must also be in the correct language (either Hebrew or Aramaic, not sure which). Go and see the rabbi who will marry you. Ask him to assist you. You don’t want a marriage to be prevented because this was done wrong.